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Need to talk, makes me feel a little bit better. We were going to adopt an 8 yr old little girl, and she has been living with us for 10 months, but it just didn't work out. She and the Admiral just didn't get along. She and I were tightly attached. We took her to her new foster home today , so I'm bluesing pretty bad. Sorry to bring ya'll down. :'(
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No bring me down, Frayed ... glad to hear ya'll the kinda great folks to attempt somethin' like that ... takes special people to make a huge commitment ... sorry it didn't work out , but all you can do is TRY ... take yer mind off it...go change the oil in your out-drive or somethin' ;) ...
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that sucks dude.
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hammer aint. stinkpot aint. sawdust aint. rainbow aint. maco sure as sh!t aint. randle? ha ha ha. |
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So sorry to hear that bro. the Lords works in mysterious ways though and all things happen for a reason. I'm sure you planted some lifelong seeds in that little girls life and she will be a better person because of it. Chin up!
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hang in there, the chemistry has to be right for the family to thrive.
A guy at work had 2 "crack" kids that he & his wife took in and the mom al of a sudden decided she was clean & sober and took them back, they fought it, but the judge went with the natural mom. they had those kids for 2 years. i think the mom just found how much more benefits the kids would get her. |
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I wish I knew what to say. That's got to be tough for everyone involved. I hope that something good happens to bring your spirits back up.
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Hey Frayed,
I will keep you and the little girl in my prayers, my middle child is an 8 y/o girl, I know zackly wut you mean about being attached.
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*************************************** Stay Safe! Sold - 1984 V-20 Cuddy with a 2003 Johnson 140 hp gas sippin 4-stroke. 1995 Ranger 250C with a 2015 Suzuki 300 hp 4-stroke. |
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You will always have the memories of the two years you spent together and the fact of knowing you had some time to instill some good habits and lessons.
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1984 V-20 Center Console 1985 90 hp Merc. American by birth, Southern by the grace of GOD. Never let your hobby become a job but rather let you job become your hobby. http://www.wellcraftv20.com/gallery/turbine_doc_84_cc |
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Dont beat your self up.. There are no guarantees even with you own kids...I dont think I could do it after raising two of my own..God knows ther are lots of kids that need a break but it has to be right for everyone or it will destroy the family...Frank
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