Personally I had a really rough relationship with my dad when I was young. I grew up having to work in his cabinet shop. In 7th grade I was working 10+ hour days on the weekends. His friends always told me how much I would appreciate the skills I was learning when I grew up. Bullpuckey...I just felt oppressed.
Now my relationship with my folks is great and, it turns out that his friends were right. I can build anything I want (see pictures). I owe those folks so much...
They are in their 70's now but both mom and dad are going fishing with me in Baja next month.
TunaBuilt greenhouse
TunaBuilt trellis and covered BBQ area around the patio
For what it's worth... TunaBuilt ribs just beginning a 6 hour low 'n slow smoke.