This is life

[phatdaddy]

whats that old saying, "if you want to make god laugh, just tell him your plans." i went through the same thing with my dad. i only worked about 10 - 15 hours a week and took care of him the rest of the time. after he passed, i realized how much that it meant to me to be able to take care of him like that. i know its rough on your wife , but one day she will miss being able to care for him.
as far as your daughter, take care of her needs, plenty of boats to get to later.