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02-16-2012, 05:20 PM
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Like Ridge, I lost my dad early too...only 4 when he died so I really don't have any memories....so you got it all over me...spend time remembering his life and the things he did FOR you and the things he did WITH you...be glad you had the time w/him you did and like RKC said, help your mom thru this..she was with him longer than you, knew him from a whole different perspective...mourn him...miss him...but dwell on the good times and the things you learned by being his son...
Best to you and your family...
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02-16-2012, 07:09 PM
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i guess we're all getting to that age, lost my dad 16 months ago and my mom 2 & 1/2 years ago. like stated above, take care of your mom. my dad was in relatively good health, he just lost his drive after mom went. she'll say she's fine, but keep her busy and in the loop. i think about my parents every day, woulda , coulda , shoulda, etc.
once again, sorry for your loss.
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02-16-2012, 07:33 PM
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Sorry to hear!! I have no words of wisdom here as I have both mom and dad, but they getting old, mom 73 dad soon to be 75.
As you know my mom is on the way this year if the Doc is right and I am already falling apart watching her going thur the crap! prayers sent!!
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02-16-2012, 09:13 PM
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My condolences my friend.
I lost mine when I was 17, you do not ever get over it. I find I think about him still at age 57 just about every day in some small way. You learn to cherish memories. Be as good of a man as he was for your kids. But you will think of him. In the end that is not a bad thing.
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02-16-2012, 09:24 PM
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I'm sorry to hear this bud ... but I know exactly how you feel ... I still cry when I'm alone it makes me feel better.... my dad passed dec 10th and I don't think any of us get over the loss of anyone passing.
Hang in there for your wife and kids and especially your mom.
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