Tom's River sounds like a good central meeting place. I used to live there actually. There was a great bar named Reynolds where you could get beer steamed clams and hot dogs. I wonder if it's still there? Anyways, it's 79 miles from me now, so that's a do-able range. First round is on me.
Not sure about Reynolds. Do you remember where it was. if first round is on you I will find it.