It's official!

[jjjtronics]

Marriage is like playing a lotto where you may win big, gain nothing, or loose big. So, if you wan`t to play and take the chance, it`s your call. I do know I sound negative, but it is the truth. You can give your very very best, 150%, but it`s up to the other half to complete the team so it works succesfully, so you have no control on the outcome.
One thing for sure, an agreement ( capitulations ) can later avoid non-deserved pain, and will not interfere with hapiness if there is potential from the two of you.
Man, pardon me for the sad words, but like a good and sincere person, I HAVE to tell you.

I suggest you see "DiCaprio`s" "Revolutionary Road" movie, and really give it a good though.

Anywho, I WISH BOTH OF YOU THE VERY BEST, BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN, TONS OF LOVE, and above all, that you both can respect each other`s individuality, so BOTH can be happy in your married, but "individual" lives.
JT