so to ask if any of you guys know a good divorce lawyer would be futile. my wife, it turns out, is the most selfish annoying ***** i have ever met. but we have this beautiful baby that i cant stand the thought of losing. jen is from chicago and all her family is there. so if we get divorced my son will end up being raised by a bunch of yankees. cant have that. i keep hearing this song in my head, by guns and roses, on the lies lies lies album... 'i used to love her...but i had to kill her'

sorry to break up y'alls "feel good" but, this is how i feel today. and y'all did ask.

p.s. my new pet name for her... 'my little chummy bear'