[Destroyer]

Originally Posted by scupgirl

Hello Everyone,
Last week I received a call from the nursing home that MJ is not doing well. This week I have brought all of his grandchildren to visit, notified family and some of his very close friends. Yesterday morning his health care proxy was invoked (Me) and we headed back to the nursing home. Macojoe's lucid moments are becoming fewer and fewer. Most of the day he is unresponsive with a few short bursts of energy to be able to call me and say hi.

Yesterday the grandchildren visited him for what is to be the last time (as I do not want them to see him worse) and after speaking with his nursing home, I have given the okay to begin comfort care and put a DNR in place.

I am not sure how much more time MJ will have with us but I want all of you to know that your friendships and brotherhood all these years will never be forgotten.

As I kid I'd help my father with the t shirt organizing for delivery, laugh at the jokes on the sites, be jealous of some of the get togethers he got to go to. Always begging to tag along to fishing shows, viewing pictures etc. He was suppose to teach my children how to fish but we have put it off for years due to his health. My twins birthday is in August and we will be getting them their first rods with a remembrance of Papa on them.

I cannot thank this group enough for all that they have done for MJ and my family.

Macojoe's final wishes are to be cremated with no services. And at a later day have his ashes spread by boat at his favorite fishing spot. We have not discussed a date but I believe next summer we are going to do our own send off which we will invite everyone to.

We have gathered his outfit for heaven which includes a wellcraft v20 hat, shirt and sweatshirt.

He will be all set for fishing in heaven.

Again, I cannot thank all of you enough for the love, support and friendship you have given my father all these years.

I will be in touch as soon as I can.

If anyone wishes to contact me, please message me.

Sincerely,

ScupGirl

I think we've all had this feeling for a long time that MJ was on his last fishing trip. I'm crying inside as I write this. I like your dad. He is a good man and I'm going to miss him when he's gone. Please keep us informed of events as they transpire, and don't be surprised if several strangers show up at that party you mentioned. We owe him so much.