I used a tester on the car harness and everything works fine, the connector on the back of the suv that the harness plugs into is bad, so I got a new one from autozone and it still didnt work, the new connector from autozone had it wired wrong inside, so I just got a male and female plug and spliced into the harness by the plug on the suv and now everything works great!!!!!
Also got my battery at autozone on the charger so /fingers crossed it holds a charge.
Thank's for all the help!!!!