Marriage is like playing a lotto where you may win big, gain nothing, or loose big. So, if you wan`t to play and take the chance, it`s your call. I do know I sound negative, but it is the truth. You can give your very very best, 150%, but it`s up to the other half to complete the team so it works succesfully, so you have no control on the outcome.
One thing for sure, an agreement ( capitulations ) can later avoid non-deserved pain, and will not interfere with hapiness if there is potential from the two of you.
Man, pardon me for the sad words, but like a good and sincere person, I HAVE to tell you.
I suggest you see "DiCaprio`s" "Revolutionary Road" movie, and really give it a good though.
Anywho, I WISH BOTH OF YOU THE VERY BEST, BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN, TONS OF LOVE, and above all, that you both can respect each other`s individuality, so BOTH can be happy in your married, but "individual" lives.
JT
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Make the habit of radio-checking your VHF, and use it.
Father God is too busy to come down to help you himself, He sends His Angels. They have no wings, They are just your true friends.
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