[willy]

Well boys the sea gods smiled. I went down today after picking up the grommet at the yammie dealer and installed it, launched her and the noise/vibration was still there.
So I took my time and kept listening for when it would come in and I noticed that when I induced it with throttle I could also stop it by putting pressure on the steering wheel.
Voila!! found the bolt on the steering arm had backed out enough to allow the arm and the steering rod to vibrate. Took out my trusty Leatherman and tightened her up and no more vibration. GONE like that.
Thank you Lord, celebrated by going fishing by myself on the V. She is sweet by the way runs like a champ. Or did I tell you guys that already.
Anyhow thanks all for the imput, except you MJ, you scared the bejeezus out of me.