Same here. Members of this site stepped up and helped me out as well. I like to think that we are all an extended family and we take care of our own. 
Your family's well being and safety are the #1 concern. When the time comes and you feel safe enough to tag along, please do. Don't worry about paying us back or the tip. It's taken care of. Can your wife  and children stay with family members for a day? That might be an alternative too. Just a thought. 
Hope things work out for you.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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