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My Story
Ok guys, here's my story, I am not looking for sympathy or pity,
this is more of a warning and informational post. I have been laid up since December 1. No computer cause I would have to bend my neck. I had to get a neck operation. Doctor gave me two choices: 1 - go to therapy with a 30% chance of recovery and absolutely no lifting fro the rest of my life and lose complete use of my left arm. 2 - Fuse vertebrate’s c6 and c7; be laid up for 6 weeks and after recovery minimal heavy lifting. I think my choice was clear. Actually, right after surgery, in recovery, my pains were gone. If your family doctor says that pains in your arms, forearms, hands and tingling fingers, are from sleeping in a dumb position, or bursitis, GET A SECOND OPINION from a spine and neck doctor. It is amazing how the body is linked together. I was having strange pains for a couple of years. Then one Saturday I was doing cement work, moved over 1000 lbs in 80 lb bags, from store, to truck, truck to garage and from garage to walkway. Next day I had a stiff neck and then progressively worse each day. Major pains started mid October, had surgery December 1. Surgeon said this was coming on for a lllooonnnggg time, but the cement work did me in. When the pain got so bad, I went to the e-room. The symptoms showed The Big One, e-room took EKG, took X rays, said it must be torn rotator cuff, gave me Motrin and said bye-bye. Luckily one of my wife’s best friends works for a neck and spine specialist explained everything to her and the next day I was getting an MRI and the good pain pills. When the surgeon saw my MRI, he asked our friend how was I functioning. The disk came out and was up along my spinal cord, he was sure I was in more pain than I was letting everyone know. It is amazing how fast things go. I still have to be careful how fast I move my head and I can’t look down for long periods of time. Makes it hard to type. Luckily I have good insurance, all doctor bills covered and wages covered by short term disability. It is just very boring sitting around watching TV, good thing I like the science channel, the Discovery network and the History channel, I would really be bored. |
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Parish, I understand brother, believe me.
20 years ago while pulling a fireman up the stairs after an explosion at a commercial fire another fireman came down the stairs and tripped and fell on me, crunched my neck, been down hill since then. Eventually surgery fusion c6-c7. Multiple pursuits car crashes fights wrestling suspects and assorted other adventures I had a fall a year ago running down some concrete stairs went head first into concrete block wall, saw the big light and was out for a few seconds. When I awoke I rolled over and stood up with help from my Sgt. and one of my Officers, my neck stiffened almost immediatly. Spent the next three months at work but doing physical therapy. Finally the daily pain got real bad, arms started going numb just standing there, had huge egg size knots in my arm muscles and headaches and facial twitching. Pain in the chest area like a heart attack. Surgery June 1st this year fusion grafting titanium plate for c5-6 and c4-5 . Back at work now but this is going to cost me the rest of my life. Will be another five or six months before it starts getting really solid I believe. Then the arthritis will really start kicking in. I'll be 52 in March. So I put in my retirement papers, leaving after 28 years. Highest ranking Officer in PD, not worth staying any longer and too much risk. It will get better now Parish, but as hard as it is and boring take it easy. Takes adults six to eight months before the fusion really becomes solid at least and if you do something traumatic to it before that you stand a chance of never fully recovering. The symptoms will eventually start going away but nerves only regenerate to a certain degree and very slowly at that. A lot depends on how much pressure was on them and for how long. Take it easy my friend let it heal and don't worry any more about it, it's done now. |
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Hmm...........I have a torn rotor and the pain has been there for almost a year now??
But i have noticed a pain in my neck lately also, so much so it was giving me a ear ach last week after I built some stairs! Glad you doing better!! |
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paris, glad you got to doc when ya did ...sounds like he's gotcha headed in right direction ...good for you!!...
...hey, if lookin' down at PC monitor painful, elevate the monitor or lower the chair (or combo of both) ... obviously get someone else to do the ''heavy-lifting'', but we don't wanna lose your input here over a little pain-in -the-neck ;) ... |
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Thanks Willy, my regular job is not physical like police work,
engineers sit at a desk most of the time, it is what I like to do in my spare time that is the problem. MJ, thanks, this was not the first episode that made me question my doctor, my mother died of kidney cancer 10 years ago, which moved into her bone marrow, she was having arm pains and her doctor told her it was bursitis. One night she got her arm caught in her covers and broke it. Now I am always second guessing my doctor. Thanks Reel, definately in the right direction. It's not the monitor that is my issue, I always keep it elivated, my problem is that I am a hunt and peck keyboard operator, so I have to look down at the keyboard, but, the pain is going away more and more each day, but again, it is not the pain that I am afraid of, the doctor warned me that if I look down by moving my head, I could break the titanium plate and have to go through the operation all over again. One more thing guys, if you have to have bone graft instead of the new inserts, ask for cadaver bone. They used to use grafts from your hips and everyone warned me about that pain being worse than the neck pain. I got cadaver bone and I think that I am in a better frame of mind because I have no hip pain. |
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I had a couple of discs fused in my neck a couple of years ago, your symptoms sound like mine were, only loss is a couple of degrees rotation when looking over your shoulder to see if Willy is following you.
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By time you think to look it will be to late my friend 8)
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Oooo...the plot thickens .... ...along w/ the bull$hit ;D ;D ;D ... |
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He never forgave me for making him push the boat off the sand bar!!! |
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man, if this is what i have to look forward to, i think i'll stay (relatively) young.
i have a big pain in my a$$. oooops, here she comes now. get better guys. maybe you will all be able to catch all the fluke that we cant this coming season. |
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i hate to hear that man. Yall get better and Ill keep you in my prayers.
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It wasn't the sand bar, it was the human trolling motor with fins, ;D
And Charlie, me, Parish and even Franco (now that he has a real trolling motor) plan to be around another 50 years. And as soon as CB gets a little stronger I'm going to rent a big van, no a class C and all of us are going down to the Puhbahs for a few days to drink some, fish some and if I can get that real old codger Ozzie to come along we might chase some skirts around Sebastian Inlet. 8) |
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Thanks Stink,
since the surgery, all my arm pains are gone and the rcovery stuff I am going through are just little annoyances compared to the pre-surgery pain. CTT - it is a bit$% getting older, turned 40 needed reading glasses and pills for gout, high B preasure and high cholestorol. turned 45 - developed artheritis in my knees, turned 47 - surgery to scrape arther out of knees and repair miniscus, turned 48 - neck surgery. but hey, I refuse to let all this stuff get me down, I am going to enjoy every minute. |
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Parish, Hope ya doing better. Guess I'll have to trailer your V down to my place and take her abit. ;D
I'll send ya pics. of teh fun I'll have in your V. ;D |
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I plan on having the first hydrogen powered 32' express, ( a stretched version of the V20) so around 2022, and I always look forward to my V20 bro's coming down to Sebastian to fish and pay homage to the Shrine of the infernal butt whuppin" (ask Rap about that)
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Franco we need to get GPS coordinates on that site, I'm preparing a suitable marker for it.
I still got any Killians left in your garage, we may need them ;D I hear once you have had neck surgery you can drink even more than you used to, dead from the neck up you know. So between you me and Parish whew!! Now Oz, he was born dead from the neck up so God only knows with him, I guess I better buy a few more cases :D |
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Hammer - feelin better every day, thanks. Probably no questions asked, if Lewes PD seen pulling my V. ;)
Franco - will that be I/O or outboard. Imagine the money that could be made by developing a hydrogen powered outboard 8) Willy - Did you ever have of Yuengling lager? I can drink Killian's and not seam to get any effect. :'( |
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Parish, I'm with ya on the Yuengling. *good stuff ;D
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sry to hear about ur pain in the neck paris. (no pun intended) better you than me, though. if i ever injured my neck my old man would be gone in a heartbeat,lol
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C'mon, Parot ... yer KILLIN' us !! ... ;D ;D ;D ...
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Yuengling works, though I am more of a Jack or some Pussers Rum man now, or for the summer a Sundowner (Plymouth or Bombay gin and a touch of tonic). Losing my taste for most of the beer for some reason the past several years. Probably because of my mis spent youth 8) drank it like water.
Parish what ever I need to stock the coolers with consider it done brother. |
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Willy, Probably have 3 gallons of assorted rums and bunches of other adult libations, waitin on you to bring the fellas down!
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Ah Franco, that is the sweetest invite anyone ever gave me, I love you man ;D
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Parishht,
Take it easy and do what the doctor says for now. *If that doesn't work, find another doctor! But it sounds like you did the right thing. *My friend Chad just had 3 vertabrae fused together in his lower back with titanium rods and pins. *He says the pain he had before is gone. *He just has to take it easy for a while before doing anything too strenuous. He's 33 and I'm soon to be 34. * Actually, a couple of years ago I went to have an MRI done due to this popping noise I'd hear sometimes when I'd swallow (spit that is). *Well when the doc saw the x-rays they left a real serious voicemail on my answering machine telling me I'd better get there asap! When I got there I was freakin scare to death. *I was like, how long have I got doc? *But the MRI had shown where 2 of the vertabrae in my neck were out of place. *They wanted to put me in a neck brace and schedule surgery. *Since I had NO pain and have NO pain now - I just can't see doing that. *I've opted to take it easy on the neck until surgery is necessary. *I may be screwing up by not having the surgery - who knows. * But I think my wife might leave me if I did have the surgery lol! Quote:
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BR,
I am taking it easy, I want to go on the V this summer. Probably your verts are out of alignmenet and not pushing the disk into your nerves, hence no pain. Just be careful, any strain could push the disk into a position that you don't want, that's what happended to me. |
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I'm sure you'll be back at it before you know it. We're lucky to have our V's and I'm sure yours misses you.
I will definitely be careful. ;) And thanks for reminding me. Sometimes I forget. |
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Hope your mended enough by boating season parishht. :-/ Feel better.
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PARISHHT:
I'M SORRY TO HEAR THAT YOU HAVE HEALTH PROBLEMS, I HOPE YOU GET BETTER SOON, A WORD OF ADVICE: IF YOU CAN,T DO SUDDEN MOVES WITH YOUR NECK, PLEASE STAY OFF MIAMI BEACH !!!!! I'M TURNING 51 THIS NEXT FAERUARY, I DO WALK/RUN 5 MILES A DAY AND DO 1 HOUR WEIGTH LIFTING,(BETWEEN HEAVY AND LIGTH WIEGTHS) AND I'M WORIED THAT IT MAY DAMAGE MY BONDS AND LIGAMENTS, HOEVER I RECENTLY STOPPED SMOKING AND I REFUSE TO GET FAT, SO I'LL KEEP EXCERSIZING. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND GET WELL MY FRIEND. LESTERUS |
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Thanks LESTER, I was in South Beach a few years ago,
maybe that IS what did in my neck. All my doctors tell me they are glad I never smoked, they say I have a much better chance of healing faster and better. I am bigger, because my vice is eating big portions, but I am a firm believer in eating foods that are high in vitamins and minerals. Especially the vegies high in calcium. |
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Also Parish I don't know if anyone told you but dont take any anti inflammatoris like Advil etc. they prevent the bonding healing of the bone structure.
If you need anything take Tylenol |
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Thanks Willy, I'll keep that in mind.
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Man, that sucks.
I wish you well. |
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Thanks Bass, I think I may be luckier than most,
I have a thick neck and I don't smoke, Two things that my doc says are plusses. He told me that my thick neck made the surgery difficult, but it will give my neck extra support to aid in th ehealing process, kinda like a natural neck brace, he even told me not to where a neck brace unless I absolutely felt I needed one. |
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