In the beginning it was brutal. Over the years it has become less brutal. She is an amazing grandmother to my children and would probably do anything for me but no good deed goes unpunished.

A wonderful old black woman named Alma gave me this advise:

"Brent, when she come in the room you gets up and walk out. Every time, every room, gets up and leave. Don't be loud, jess leave. After awhile she get the picture and thank befo she make suggestions about cho beard and boat projects in the front yard."

funny thats what i use to do!! made believe i never saw or heard her!, after 20 years she got old and turned out pretty good.

:haha: Nice observation Phat....

be nice to the old bat, that will make your wife happy, and if your wife is happy than you will be happy, and if that does not work BANG ZOOM