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chumbucket
02-15-2018, 01:59 PM
I've been checking on MJ periodically and he seemed to be doing ok. He called me this morning from the hospital. Seems he fell and broke his hip. :cen:
He said when he fell, his daughter and her boyfriend helped him up and into his chair. He sat for a while, but the pain was getting worse, so she called an ambulance. Next thing he knows they have him in Boston and had surgery to repair the hip.
MJ stated they were going to get him out of bed and walking today but he didn't sound too happy with that.
I'll keep youz guys posted if I hear more.

phatdaddy
02-15-2018, 04:38 PM
Wow, sorry to hear that. My dad fell and broke his pelvis, much worse. The hip they can correct surgically and get him up much faster. Only thing for the pelvis is lay in bed for 6-8 weeks.

Tell him to hang tough,chum.

charlie_the_tuna
02-15-2018, 07:20 PM
man, the old guy cant get a break. (no pun) let him know we wish him well. hope you're doing well also, chum.

Destroyer
02-15-2018, 11:13 PM
Damn... when it rains it pours. Just when it seemed things were finally turning around for him. Please give him our best and keep us posted on his progress Chum, and thank you for keeping us all up to date. He's lucky to have such a good friend. :beer:

Striper80
02-16-2018, 06:59 AM
Man he sure is having a tough time. Prayers sent.

Cam
02-16-2018, 10:31 AM
:rain:

Blue_Runner
02-16-2018, 12:45 PM
oh man, that really blows! Dangit MJ, hope you get back on your feet asap.

Pipe_Dream
02-16-2018, 02:40 PM
Thanks for the update, CB. Tell him we're all pulling for him.

cfelton
02-16-2018, 07:30 PM
Man, that's terrible! Tell him we all hope him a fast recovery!

Tunnaman88
02-16-2018, 10:32 PM
Get well MJ! At least you have the best Dr's in the world at your fingertips !

randlemanboater
02-19-2018, 07:29 PM
Wow, I will be praying for MJ's recovery.

reelapeelin
02-25-2018, 01:20 PM
Sorry to hear CB...hope the old boy is feeling better soon!

Thanks for letting us know

Slightly_Twisted
02-26-2018, 08:21 AM
Well that just sucks. Get better soon!

Any update on how he’s doing?

bradford
03-01-2018, 03:16 AM
Hope he pulls through with no major setbacks.

lumberslinger178
03-07-2018, 09:21 PM
Hang in there mj hope you get well soon...

bradford
03-29-2018, 08:58 AM
Anyone hear any news about MJ?

steplift20
03-29-2018, 08:48 PM
MJ, I will be praying for a fast recovery for you Get well soon our friend

chumbucket
03-31-2018, 11:26 AM
I found this guy today and he has a message for y'all.

https://i.imgur.com/2sM93Jw.jpg?1

wellcraftv20step
03-31-2018, 12:16 PM
looks to me like he's felling better !!

chumbucket
03-31-2018, 01:39 PM
MJ has been in a nursing facility for rehab following his broken hip. He's doing pretty well with his therapy and due to go home next Friday. They have been transporting him back and forth to the hospital that did the kidney transplant and that's going well too.
I had a free day today so I decided to take a drive to see how he's doing.

Destroyer
03-31-2018, 10:25 PM
Thanks Chum. Good to see/hear he's doing better and good to see/hear that he has a friend like you to look in on him. Double blessed day. :amen:

phatdaddy
04-01-2018, 09:41 AM
glad u found him, chum.

nice to see he hasn't lost his charm

macojoe
04-08-2018, 11:04 AM
Hey there everyone, I am home now!! Still walk with a walker till I get somr bal but going well!!
As far as the kidney goes, so far all is well. My white blood count is down to 2.9 and they want to see it around 5, so i have to were a mask arouind people but so far so good,
The hip is good and i took a fe2w steps today wit no walker!!so should be fine in a few weeks with excersize

Its nice to see you are all wanti ng to hear from me and it makes me feel great that so many of you afe conserned

Thank you aall and God Bless Joe

phatdaddy
04-08-2018, 01:56 PM
Good News, MJ. Glad to see the eye back posting again.

steplift20
04-08-2018, 03:41 PM
A finger, really After we poured our hearths out to you ,,,,, I love it That says your feeling better I love it Get better fast our friend M j I missed the eye too

scook
04-08-2018, 03:49 PM
Joe - you da man!!! Glad to see you back and looking forward to the day you’re ready for a boat again. Please let us know when you start thinking that way so we can throw in some support.

In the mean time my prayers are with you for good solid recovery. Please keep us updated.

jvitiel
04-08-2018, 07:30 PM
Awesome MJ. Congrats and keep up the good work!

Slightly_Twisted
04-08-2018, 07:35 PM
:sun::sun: great news! Keep fighting to get stronger!

spareparts
04-08-2018, 10:41 PM
:clap::clap::clap::clap::clap:

wellcraftv20step
04-09-2018, 03:40 AM
Mj ,you are a bad a$$ for sure, your doing great !!!

tsubaki
04-09-2018, 04:49 AM
Thanks for letting us know how you are doing!!

3 Squids
04-09-2018, 09:31 AM
Glad to hear all is well. Praying your progress keeps up and you be back in the game in no time.

bradford
04-10-2018, 01:20 AM
'Bout time you had something good to post.

THEFERMANATOR
04-10-2018, 04:46 AM
Glad to see you back, and your wind talking is as good as ever.

Tunnaman88
04-14-2018, 08:30 PM
Welcome back.... glad things are looking up!!! This site has missed you

Destroyer
04-15-2018, 05:50 PM
Wonderful news!!! The road to full recovery is a long one sometimes, but I have the feeling you're on it for good now. God bless. :clap::clap::clap:

RABBITFISH
04-18-2018, 08:17 PM
:clap::clap::clap: So happy that you are doing better! You mean a lot to all of us!

charlie_the_tuna
04-19-2018, 04:33 PM
ok you old fruit. now get off your wrinkled a$$ and start getting back to normal. it aint much fun out fishing you if you aint fishing.

BuilderFL
05-26-2018, 09:06 AM
Look who I came across on another website, The stripped bass.com The one and only MJ. Looking good and with a message for all of us. :clap:

https://i.imgur.com/2sM93Jw.jpg?1

Pipe_Dream
05-29-2018, 06:47 AM
Hey, MJ. Glad to see you still have your attitude!

charlie_the_tuna
05-30-2018, 12:34 PM
really???? you show up on a different site??? traitor!!!! i'll say this, you don't look a day over 87.

chumbucket
07-31-2018, 08:18 PM
Hello friends. I wanted to give another update on our previous head big shot macojoe.
I had heard from him a couple weeks ago. He was having more issues related to his diabetes. He sent me a pic of a nasty looking open wound on the bottom of his foot. I'll save you guys from the gory image. He mentioned that he was most likely going to lose the foot.
I've had several health issues going on myself lately with more back surgery next week. I tried reaching MJ a couple times to no avail to see how he was doing.
MJ called me today while I was on my way back from a Dr appointment. I had difficulty understanding him. Joe had a stroke. I don't know any other real details regarding the severity or long term prognosis. I struggled to understand him due to his speech being effected, but he was able to convey which nursing home he's in. I told him I would try to make the drive to see him before my surgery next week. My problem is, he is almost an hour away. So a two hour round trip with my back is not going to be easy.
Hopefully I'll have more news and update you folks in a couple days.

randlemanboater
08-01-2018, 07:36 AM
Continued prayers for both of you.

Pipe_Dream
08-01-2018, 09:05 AM
Thanks for getting the word out, CB. Is there something that we could do for him?

Prayers and best wishes for your upcoming surgery.

Destroyer
08-01-2018, 01:34 PM
Prayers for both of you. Candles will be lit this Sunday. Best of luck in your upcoming surgery CB. :pray2:

chumbucket
08-01-2018, 02:26 PM
Thanks guys. I talked to Joe's daughter today. Seems it's not 100% that he had a stroke, but they believe he did. When they transported him from his local hospital to Tufts University Hospital in Boston, he had several bad seizures and another really bad one at the hospital. They ran a lot of tests on him. Most were inconclusive, so best they can tell, he had a small stroke. He was unconscious for several days so they had both a breathing tube and a feeding tube inserted. Apparently that's mostly why I had difficulty understanding him. He was having hallucinations and all sorts of other bad stuff going on. Since being discharged to the nursing home, he has been refusing to eat so they puree most of his food. His daughter is trying to get him to eat.
If anyone has a mind to send him a card to boost his spirits, Joe is at;
Joseph Gougeon c/o
Cape Cod Heritage Nursing Home
37 MA-6A
Sandwich, MA 02563

I told his daughter that I would try to get there to see him, but no promises given my situation. I'll post more as I receive more news.
Thanks fellas.

chumbucket
08-01-2018, 02:30 PM
BTW; I talked to Willy two days ago. I'm pretty sure his sentiment is all y'all are still a bunch of smelly old cantankerous curmudgeons. :beer::nut:

Destroyer
08-01-2018, 11:51 PM
Thanks for the update CB Will send card of encouragement to Joe tomorrow. :beer:

Pipe_Dream
08-02-2018, 06:46 AM
Thanks for the update CB Will send card of encouragement to Joe tomorrow. :beer:

Same here.

cfelton
08-02-2018, 08:08 AM
Thanks for the update. Praying for you both. Dang yall are going through some tough times. Hope things turn around for the better.

phatdaddy
08-02-2018, 09:25 AM
Thank s for the update & address, i ll try to get something in the mail to him

Blue_Runner
08-02-2018, 12:32 PM
Chum thanks so much for the update on our favorite big guy as well as your situation. Hoping & praying everything will be ok with MJ and that your surgery goes well.

wellcraftv20step
08-03-2018, 04:41 AM
Best of luck chum, A Card will go out today ! He's just been through so much.

reelapeelin
08-19-2018, 10:10 AM
Thanks for keeping us posted and remaining such a good friend of MJ's over the years...Please wish him the best for me

Monkey Butler
09-19-2018, 05:38 PM
Stopping by for the first time in a while. Sorry to hear about your trials and tribulations with your health.

Looks like there's still a great bunch of people on here rooting for you. Get better soon MJ!

Steve Pawlowskis

Destroyer
10-09-2018, 11:31 AM
Any updates on MJ? :head:

chumbucket
01-01-2019, 02:50 PM
Sorry for delayed updates on our Pal MJ. I've been having struggles myself with more spine surgeries. That's a nasty rabbit hole I don't wish on anybody.
Anyways, our Pal MJ is really struggling. At one point it sounded as if he was working towards going home. Unfortunately, as bad luck seems to be hanging over MJ's head constantly, that just never happened. So many setbacks and complicated issues have kept him in the nursing home since last summer.
He really wanted to be home around Thanksgiving for his twin grand kids birthday's. That didn't happen. As time wore on, MJ has become more and more dejected and withdrawn. To the point he doesn't answer phone calls or texts. I haven't really been able to drive to see him due to my ongoing surgeries. I have been in touch with his daughter several times for status updates. Each one sounds worse than the other. MJ often refuses to eat or take meds.
I did text him a Merry Christmas message on Christmas day and he responded with a short Merry Christmas back to me and saying we'll talk soon. I haven't heard anymore since.
A few members of another site are sending cards with get well wishes. If anyone here would like to do the same, his info is the same as what I posted earlier in this thread. I have also received a few donations to help him out. Those will most likely be forwarded to his daughter, but I'm going to make the effort to go see him in a week or two if possible. If that happens, I will ask how he wants those funds to be handled.
If any of you fellas would like to help, My PayPal is; [email protected] and any and all funds will go directly to help our buddy out. Even just a card to lift his spirits would be a huge help. I know things are tight for a lot of folks right after Christmas and all.
Thanks fellas. I'll try to give more timely updates provided I can stay out of hospitals myself. :hi:

Edit to add Joes info;
Joseph Gougeon c/o
Cape Cod Heritage Nursing Home
37 MA-6A
Sandwich, MA 02563

Destroyer
01-01-2019, 08:15 PM
Thanks for the update CB. He's lucky to have such a good friend like you. Happy New Year and hope your problems disappear this year. :beer:

chumbucket
01-02-2019, 06:10 AM
Thanks for the update CB. He's lucky to have such a good friend like you. Happy New Year and hope your problems disappear this year. :beer:

Thank you my friend. Same to youz.

bradford
01-02-2019, 09:26 PM
Appreciate the update Chum and the additional leg work even with your own issues going on. I am grateful to this site for the camaraderie and tons of free advice and knowledge through the years. I'm not online much anymore, but when I am I always try to check in here. Gonna see about sending something up that way for that old curmudgeon MJ. I will say that I was in a bar a week ago and a couple guys rocked out Billy Joel's "Downeaster Alexa" and made me think of him.

reelapeelin
01-03-2019, 07:16 PM
Thanks again, Chum for keeping us informed about MJ..hope one day his luck turns for the better.

And you, old buddy...have been the soul of this forum since I joined back in '03. My heart goes out to you for all the pain and hardship I know you have suffered, but not mentioned. Sorry to hear about it and hope to the heavens you are able to beat your ailments and get back to the active, normal life you used to live.

Best regards always...

chumbucket
01-03-2019, 08:04 PM
Thanks again, Chum for keeping us informed about MJ..hope one day his luck turns for the better.

And you, old buddy...have been the soul of this forum since I joined back in '03. My heart goes out to you for all the pain and hardship I know you have suffered, but not mentioned. Sorry to hear about it and hope to the heavens you are able to beat your ailments and get back to the active, normal life you used to live.

Best regards always...
Thanks Ozzy my friend. :hi:

Blue_Runner
01-14-2019, 05:14 PM
MJ and CB - the two peas in a pod that drew me in and kept me here! Love you both. I wish I could be 1/2 the admin MJ was. Just want everybody to know I'm in and out of here almost daily, just don't have the time to post much. I do read a lot of the posts and updates. Even still I know I have a lot of friends here and cherish every one of you. Old members, new members, all welcome here. You don't get razzed on this site for saying something "silly". No dumb questions on this site, unlike others. If that weren't the case I would have been run out of here long ago!

Thank you CB for keeping us posted on our old friend and on your ongoing situation.

chumbucket
01-15-2019, 06:15 AM
I'm pretty busy this week with some Dr follow ups from my third spinal fusion surgery, but I'm going to try to get down to see MJ next week.
I'll keep you all posted on updates following that visit.

Cam
01-15-2019, 06:28 AM
Great to hear from you and that all looks like it is finally showing good results for you. Keep it up and you'll be back in no time!!!:clap::sun: